I’ve got to say, now I really dig the phrase being a “bad girl”, because to me it is so incredibly freeing to be able to look at an old former limiting belief of mine stemming from a history of sexual abuse where I spent years thinking that I was indeed a bad girl. By believing that I was in any way responsible for the hurt that was perpetrated upon me by others, I wasted years feeling shameful about myself and my body.
Now thanks to EFT, I can associate a new meaning to the words, “Bad girl” or any other phrase or stinkin’ thinkin’ thought that used to get my panties in a twist. It’s so nice to know that I can choose to feel empowered, rather than disempowered.
The takeaway for you in this is to know that you, too can change your associations. You run your brain, nobody else. If something is causing a disconnect and creating some emotional pain for you, you now know that you don’t have to take it lying down. You can change the way you feel about yourself, your body, sex and anything else that doesn’t already feel good. “ Bad girl” That’s just my preference for words. You may not feel as inclined to enjoy the phrase as much as me. Nonetheless I’ll ask you to take my words with a grain of salt and as with everything else I’ve shared, run it through the filter of your own experience and see what works for you.
So let me ask you–would you like to learn to be a bad girl or some other fitting description that you may like more? When you get right down to it, would you like to enjoy sex more just because you deserve to have more fun?